Thursday, August 20, 2009

Keep holding on :)

Ah, the stress of trying to conceive! As the months go on, trying to conceive is definitely taking a toll on my marriage. Wanting so bad to be pregnant eventually consumes me and it is all I can think about. I need to take a step back and realize that we are in this together and not let this tear us apart. This has been tough but I plan to keep facing it head on and be grateful that I have a husband that loves me and is behind me 100%. I'm going to keep holding on to hope with my love at my side.
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3 comments:

  1. LauraAugust 24, 2009 at 5:38 AM

    I hope it happens soon for you, I know how frusterating it can be. We tried for a while before it happened and when it did it was when we weren't trying...I think I was a lot more stressed about the whole thing then I thought I was...my advise is relax and enjoy your marriage and try not to think about it too much...I know it is hard when it is what you want so bad! it will happen though! :)

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  2. VanessaAugust 24, 2009 at 6:04 PM

    You're right I should just try to relax and not stress too much because I do tend to do that! I've heard that it does tend to happen when you're not trying. That's going to be my plan next month if it doesn't happen for me this time. Thanks for the advice, it's nice to hear.

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  3. MelissaAugust 27, 2009 at 2:14 PM

    Hi! I'm new to your blog.

    I agree with you. TTC does take a toll on your marriage. For a while there we took a small break as it was just a beating, month after month of BFN's.

    But then, during that break, we conceived our first child. Of course it ended in a miscarriage BUT I was happy...always expect the unexpected.

    Good luck!

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